WHERE FORGIVENESS DOESN'T FIT... WHERE FORGIVENESS DOES NOT COME IN!

I know the guidelines very well, including with regard to forgiveness... By the way, in no way am I speaking against forgiveness, because I am not a fool (anymore) to contradict the one who said: "FORGIVE SEVENTY TIMES SEVEN TIMES!"

No! That's not it!

What I mean is that there are situations that even practicing there, the prerogatives established by Christ, it is very, very difficult to apply everything else! (Everything else: living together again, sharing the same space, sharing the same ideas, talking about the same ideals!).

Once any of the details are damaged, the whole set is completely discarded and worse: forever! (Actually, relatively, because forever is a long time and taking into account that life does not end with death, it may be that after a few thousand years, some points of view will be reconsidered and respect and affection in some way, return to common coexistence, as a couple, for example).

Forgiving, overcoming, etc., avoiding hatred, resentment and resentment, in some cases, most of the time, is much more than enough, since the vast majority are limited only to hatred and contempt for others!

But, I refer specifically to the betrayal of a partner, who was held very highly, almost unreservedly considerable!

As much as it acts a forgiveness, a respect, a lot of affection and a lot of consideration, the vile memory of the retrospect does not leave much option!

The memories of the contempt of disregard are too painful for any other attempt at a new acceptance!

After all, self-love, dignity, sensitivity, emotion, etc., are too noble feelings to be thrown at the trash, for promises of forgiveness, of love, of passion!

Because betrayal definitely "burns", promotes affliction!

That is why it is not enough to say that have forgotten, it is not enough to establish a pardon...